Forgiving simply means that you will no longer spend one more minuet of one more hour of one more day allowing yourself to be dominated by negative emotions. Forgive someone not as kindness but as kindness to yourself. If you get hurt repeatedly every day; like called a name everyday by the same person. The next day stand up for yourself. Now this doesn't mean go and punch them in the face no matter how much you want to. Simply say to them something like "It's okay your a jerk. It's OK you call me this hateful name everyday. But it is not okay for me to let it bother me. I'm done letting you be the one who determines how I feel everyday. I'm done giving you the satisfaction of hurting me. Mostly because I'm stronger than you I no longer hurt."
You have to get rid of those terrible people to be strong and happy. That's just how it works. Stand up for yourself and start looking forward and your life will change. Pinky Promise.
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